How to Get a Man Back - Building Bridges
Sometimes a small mistake can spell the end of a relationship, yet really the relationship still has a chance.
You just need to get him to speak with you again.
Here's how to get you back into his world and his heart.
Vent your emotions You still have lots of anger and sad emotions plaguing you.
He really hurt you, and you need to tell someone about it.
You're furious and you want to let it all out.
He's in the wrong and you want to let him know.
This is okay if you want to convince him that it was all his fault.
However, this is not the way to get your man back.
You'll just be making things worse and reminding him why he broke up with you in the first place.
Cry and scream and shout to your friends, your parents, anyone but him.
When you see him again, move on.
Present Yourself Well You don't want to go through all your past good memories, but you can certainly remind him.
Be the happy and fun woman he first met and was entranced by.
Buy a new outfit and take some care with your hair and make-up, like you did when you were first dating.
Stunning a guy's sense of vision may seem like a cheap trick, but it can be a good first step in getting your man back.
Bring back memories how the good times you used to have by showing him how much fun you can be.
Cooling-off time Give him some time and space, particularly if your break-up was angry and noisy.
He'll have a lot of steam to let off.
Give him some time, then meet on neutral ground where you're not likely to start arguing again.
Rehashing the same argument again is not going to get your man back, especially if you refuse to accept any responsibility for the break-up.
Admitting your part Prior to meeting him again, take a good hard look at yourself.
Examine your behavior during the relationship.
If you can admit you had a part to play in the demise of the relationship, this will be a start to getting your man back.
In the end, you need to work on building up the strength of the relationship when you do get him back.